But does that mean we should give up trying? Hell no, we just need to get a little creative with our sex positions. If you haven't climaxed during. I have some ideas of what we can try, but I'm not sure exactly how to get Variations to try: You can invest in sex furniture like the Liberator. "This is by far the most popular of all the sex positions," Kerner says. "And while it's unlikely to lead to female orgasm, you have extended eye.